Friday, September 15, 2006

Friday Five--Why diets fail

Do you ever wonder why so many people are out there working so hard to lose weight. When I was younger nothing irritated me more than some skinny person telling me, "Whats so hard? Just eat less." . . . I wish I could just look at them and say *insert sarcastic voice here* "Oooooh, so that's what I have to do. Gee I never thought of that. Well, I'll just go drop all this weight tomorrow then". Ugh it is soo frustrating and so hard. And it isn't as easy as just eating less. I don't know anyone who has successfully lost weight who didn't try and fail at losing weight a number of times before finally getting it right and losing the weight. So why do diets fail? What makes the difference? Is there anything we can do that can help us to stay on track? Are there any secrets that these success stories can share with us. I needed to know, so of course, I got out my trusty search engine and went a'googling. This is part of what I found the comments in brackets and italics are mine:

Top 5 reasons diets fail, and how to overcome them

ONE STRIKE, YOU’RE OUT (I have been guilty of this in the past. It is a mistake I am consciously working not to make this time around)

A problem that many challenged dieters experience is falling off the wagon when they make just one diet slip-up. You’ve gone a week without indulging in any fried fast foods, and you break down and go to the local burger joint for some fries and a burger. Then, you figure, since you have already screwed it up, there’s no reason to try to eat well the rest of the day, right? Wrong! That day leads to the next day, the next week, month, etc. It is a vicious cycle. Do not beat yourself up for going off the diet plan once and a while – sometimes you just can’t help but satisfy a craving. We beat ourselves up so much over one mistake that we allow ourselves to believe that all of our efforts to get fit were a waste. Instead of turning a small negative into a huge one, turn it into a positive. If you eat a brownie sundae after lunch, put in some extra time at the gym later, or take a brisk walk after dinner. Nobody is perfect; the important thing is handling your mistakes properly.

EMOTIONAL EATING (I have SUCH a problem with this. When I have problems eating really does make me feel better, but then I work on not letting it be a one strike and you're out thing again)

Overeating to ease emotional stress is a major pitfall for dieters. Many of us may not realize that we were brought up to bury our feelings behind a snack. Think about how many times you have seen a mother console her crying child by offering him a cookie. So many women are used to curling up with a pint of ice cream to soothe the pain of a break-up, or a fight with their significant other. These natural tendencies lead us to make allowances for ourselves when we are going through stressful times. Unfortunately, eating poorly will only lead to more stress, because you will be worried about being overweight and not being able to follow through with your diet. Rather than eating to numb the pain, try exercising, writing in a journal, or calling a friend. If you can stick to your diet in a stressful situation, then you will be able to feel more confident that you will be able to meet your weight-loss goals. Handling stress is an important test of a dieter’s will and determination.

NO MIRACLE RESULTS (In the past, I looked for quick fixes and easy solutions. This time, Ifeel like it took me a lifetime to become this way I am not going to change my whole way of dealing with food overnight. This is a long term battle for me)

We are in a world of quick-fixes and get-rich schemes, so it is no wonder that the weight loss industry makes false promises too. You cannot expect to lose sixty pounds in two months. It just isn’t realistic. Haven’t you noticed the fine print on those weight loss product commercials? The results that they are proudly advertising are not typical! Losing weight is not easy, and you shouldn’t expect it to be. If it was as simple as these ads would lead you to believe, then obesity wouldn’t be such an enormous health problem in the United States. Losing weight is about changing your entire lifestyle. You can’t expect to go from couch potato to super model in little to no time at all. You have to commit yourself to a healthy diet and exercise, and you have to be patient and consistent. Do not set your goals too high. Healthy weight loss should be about one or two pounds per week. Crash diets may be intriguing, but they will not be sustainable, and you will be back at square one, once again. Bottom line: set realistic goals, and don’t expect miracles.

YOU ARE YOUR OWN WORST ENEMY (I have soooo done this. I convinced myself that I was fine big. That I was big-boned and my family was big so it was genetics and that Prince Charming liked me that way so it was okay that I wasn't capable of losing weight. But it wasn't okay and I am capable of it)

There once was a story about a fox that saw a vine of grapes hanging high from a tree. He wanted the grapes very badly, but they were just out of his reach, so he convinced himself that they wouldn’t be so great anyway. Dieters are not very different from that fox. You say that you want nothing more than to get fit and healthy, but once you start doing it, and you get sick of it, you convince yourself that you don’t really care about your weight anyway. You tell yourself that it is hopeless, and that it just doesn’t matter. You would rather be able to eat what you like than be thin. To avoid this pitfall, write yourself a commitment letter when you start a diet. It might sound silly, but it can help you to get centered on your goal when you want to stray from it. Write down the reasons that you want to go on this diet and change your lifestyle, and write down what you commit to doing to achieve your goals (working out at least three days a week, no fast food, etc.).

SICK DAYS ( I still have this problem. When I get out of my routine due to sick days or some other interruption, I have SUCH a problem kicking myself in the butt and getting back at it. This has lead to many a failed diet on my part. But this time, I am NOT giving up. I have come to far)

Sometimes when we fall out of our regular daily routines due to an illness, it can be hard to get back to business when we feeling better. If you have been home in bed with the flu for a week, then you dread going back to the gym, and having to build back up to the level you were at before you got sick. It is okay to take it easy for yourself right after you recover, but you should at least do something to stay physically active and on track with your weight-loss goals, such as taking a jog, or doing some laps in the pool.

Food for Friday

  • 2 points--fat free frankfurters
  • 1 points--ww bread
  • 0 points--coffee
  • 0 points--591 ml diet pepsi
  • 1 points--egg whites omelet
  • 1 points--ww bread
  • 1 points--apple
  • 1 points--orange sections
  • 1 points--fat free sugar free yogurt
  • 4 points--diced white chicken
  • 4 points--steamed rice
  • 0 points--steamed veggies


Amy said...

Thanks for posting these. I see myself in all of them...especially my worst enemy. I go through these "phases" where I think my weight's fine and I shouldn't worry about it, and then I gain a ton of weight eating whatever and realize I need to get back on track - thus my yo-yo cycle. I want to feel good. I want to feel my age (not like a sore old woman).

Hope you have an awesome weekend!

Lazy Daisy said...

Excellent post as usual my Dieting Diva. It's been a good week eating and excersing so I'm hoping for a definite weight loss come Monday.

Cocomolly said...

Amen to this: NO MIRACLE RESULTS (In the past, I looked for quick fixes and easy solutions. This time, Ifeel like it took me a lifetime to become this way I am not going to change my whole way of dealing with food overnight. This is a long term battle for me)
It took me SOOOOOO long to figure this one out. Now... I think that must be why it's working (albeit verrrry slowly).
PS: I like the redesign of your site. :)

3treasures said...

Wow, that is soo... TRUE; can i steal this for my blog? Thanks for sharing!

Come on in for a nice cup of coffee and a chat about my weight loss journey as well as all the healthy recipes I have found, including WW points and/or nutritional information if available. I am eating a vegetarian diet and concentrating on getting healthy and hopefully weight loss will follow. Thank to all my readers for their ongoing support.